Why So Many Virtual Assistants on Reddit Are Not What They Claim to Be

How to spot manufactured VA recommendations on Reddit and find real virtual support that works

By Published On: January 16th, 20268.4 min read
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You’ve seen the pattern.

Someone posts in a business subreddit asking where to find a reliable and dedicated virtual assistant. Within hours, the replies roll in. A few people share general advice. Then someone shows up with a glowing recommendation for a specific agency. The comment feels helpful. Personal, even. They mention how their business was struggling before they found this team. How everything changed once they got support.

And then, like clockwork, the agency appears in the thread, or in your DMs, with a link.

Something about it feels off, but you can’t quite prove why.

Not every VA agency does this, but it’s common enough on Reddit that it’s worth understanding how it works.

Why Do So Many Virtual Assistant Recommendations on Reddit Sound Fake?

I’ve been a business owner for a while now, so I’ve had time to recognize the red flags.

One of the things I’ve noticed, and even heard, is that Reddit feels safer than other platforms. (Check out my other post on finding VAs on Instagram). The indiviuals on the social channel seem more honest, and the platform’s content isn’t as sales-y.

VA agencies have observed this, and many exploit that perception.

This isn’t about one bad actor running a sketchy operation, though. This is structural. When an industry has high churn and low client retention, the marketing has to work overtime. And Reddit, with its illusion of peer-to-peer advice, becomes the ideal hunting ground.

People usually come to Reddit specifically because they’ve been burned elsewhere or want to prevent that from happening in the first place. They’re looking for real experiences from real business owners. What they don’t realize is that many VA agencies have figured out how to manufacture those experiences at scale.

How Do VA Agencies Manufacture Trust on Reddit?

Here’s What Happens

First, karma farming. New accounts post harmless comments in popular subreddits to build credibility. Once they look legitimate, they shift to business threads.

Some VA agencies use multiple accounts. Others pose as satisfied clients. A few even show up as “founders” offering free advice before steering the conversation toward their service.

What You’ll See in These Posts

The stories are emotional. but vague on specifics. They’re often heavy on transformation, with you reading about the owner’s burnout and overwhelm. But then, magically, they find relief after being paired with a part-time or full-time virtual assistant.

But you won’t hear about:

  • Whether their VA ghosted them after six months

  • What happened when the assistant didn’t understand their tech stack

  • How they handled it when quality dropped

  • What their actual availability and response times look like

  • Whether the person speaks English well enough for client-facing work

Those things are completely brushed over in those fake posts. But every glowing testimonial ends the same way. A DM offer. A link. An invitation to book a call.

The goal isn’t just visibility. It’s manufactured social proof.

Why Do VA Agencies Use These Tactics in the First Place?

If you’re someone looking for virtual support, these practices would make you wonder why they’d do this in the first place. After all, if their support model was strong, it wouldn’t need to pretend to be a customer, right?

Right.

So, this leads you to think about what might drive this kind of marketing:

  • High churn
  • Poor matching
  • Interchangeable labor pools

When clients leave after a few months because the fit was wrong or deliverables were inconsistent, the pipeline has to stay full. That means constant acquisition, constant promotion, and constant noise.

They’re Marketing This Way Because They Leak Clients

Agencies that operate this way aren’t doing so because they’re good. They’re doing it because they’re constantly losing clients. The service can’t retain on its own, so the funnel has to compensate. And when organic reputation won’t do the job, manufactured reputation fills the gap.

This is what roster-based models with low margins often produce. Not precision, not accountability. Just volume.

What Does Legitimate Virtual Support Actually Look Like on Reddit?

Legitimate Virtual Support Providers Talk Differently

They aim to understand the scope of your project. They’re comfortable sharing which kinds of work their specialists can handle and which fall outside their wheelhouse. They explain their onboarding process and what the client needs to provide to get a specialist integrated into their operations.

They can acknowledge trade-offs:

  • Managed support vs. direct hiring

  • Fast placements versus quality

  • Specialist depth versus generalist coverage

What They Don’t Do

Reputable virtual support companies don’t hype up what they do or rush you to make a decision, because they understand how crucial it is to select the right support. They also don’t flood threads with fake testimonials.

When someone asks a question, they answer it. When the fit isn’t right, they say so. They’re not afraid to talk about what could go wrong.

They believe in transparency and allow their work to speak for itself.

How to Spot Fake Virtual Assistant Recommendations on Reddit

Here’s what to watch for:

  • No details about the work. Just vague praise about “life-changing support” without mentioning what the assistant actually does.

  • Overly positive tone. Real experiences include friction. If everything sounds flawless, someone is performing.

  • Repeated brand mentions. The same agency name showing up across multiple threads, often with similar phrasing and structure.

  • Brand new or low karma accounts. Check the profile. If it was created recently or only participates in VA-related discussions, that’s a signal.

  • Same agency appearing too fast. If a recommendation shows up within minutes of the original post, especially in smaller subreddits, that’s not organic discovery.

You don’t need to call anyone out. Just recognize the pattern and move on.

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What Happens When You Hire Based on Fake Recommendations?

If the marketing is fake, the support probably is too.

Not because the people doing the work are incompetent. But because the system behind them is built for acquisition, not retention. For volume, not fit. For filling seats, not solving problems.

How You’d Pay for That Mismatch Later

You’ll pay for that mismatch in ways that don’t show up on an invoice:

  • In constantly telling them how to do something

  • In turnover that disrupts your operations
  • In cleanup work when tasks are done wrong or left incomplete

The hourly rate might look appealing up front, but the real cost shows up in the months that follow.

Cheap virtual support almost always costs more. Not necessarily in dollars spent per hour, but in time lost fixing what shouldn’t have broken in the first place.

What Should You Look for in a Virtual Assistant Provider?

  • Look for transparent processes. How does the agency vet their assistants? How do they determine fit? What happens if the placement doesn’t work?

  • Look for named specializations. Not “we do everything.” You want to know what specific functions they can handle and where their depth actually lives, because generalists can only do so much.

  • Look for clear onboarding. How long does it take to get started? What is expected of the client?

  • Look for accountability. Who owns the relationship? What happens when priorities shift or scope changes? How do they handle performance issues?

  • Look for flexibility without chaos. You shouldn’t be locked into long-term contracts, but you also shouldn’t be working with someone who juggles fifty other clients and treats your work as filler.

If an agency can answer those questions without deflecting or overselling, you’re probably talking to someone who runs a real operation.

And if their Reddit presence feels more like education than promotion, that’s usually a decent sign too.

Five Questions to Ask Yourself Before Hiring Based on Reddit Recommendations

If the answer is:
It’s just enthusiasm with no operational details
→ That’s a red flag.

If the answer is:
They’re explaining how it works, what to expect, and where friction might happen
→ That’s worth investigating.

If the answer is:
No, it’s just generic praise
→ Keep looking.

If the answer is:
Yes, they’re addressing real concerns like availability, backup plans, or how transitions work
→ That’s useful information.

If the answer is:
“Yes, and the recommendations all sound similar
→ That’s likely manufactured.

If the answer is:
I’ve only seen them mentioned once or twice, in context
→ Might be legitimate.

If the answer is:
No, everything sounds perfect
→ Someone is selling, not advising.

If the answer is:
Yes, they mention tradeoffs and/or limitations
→ That’s often how real virtual support providers respond.

If the answer is:
“They want me to DM immediately”
→ That’s a sales funnel.

If the answer is:
“They’re answering questions publicly and giving me ways to evaluate fit”
→ That’s education, not theater.

Ready to Talk About What Real Virtual Support Looks Like?

If you’re tired of sifting through manufactured recommendations and want a straight conversation about whether custom-matched virtual support makes sense for your business, book a discovery call.

No scripts. No pressure. Just a clear look at what you actually need and whether we’re the right fit to provide it.

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